Don't wish, be it. Make psychology and female behaviors and preferences your next special interest, like it were a deep dive into Elder Scrolls lore or sum shiz. Wield your disadvantage as an advantage to sail past everyone, starting from rock bottom to climb far higher than everyone who got the metaphorical instruction manual on how to talk to girls at birth. Would you rather listen to a naturally strong and big guy on how to lift weights, or the guy who started skinny but grew bigger through his own efforts and now knows how to learn? TRAINING TRUMPS TALENT